Us, them and 'we'
The marriage referendum, scheduled for May 22, is now less than 4 weeks away. I want here to dwell on a particular No side poster (from Mothers and Fathers Matter). It states "We already have civil partnerships; don't redefine marriage". I am intrigued, in particular, by the 'we'. Who are this 'we'? What does this mean? Are 'we' everybody? If the 'we is 'we' as in 'the public' at large, in fact 'we' don't all have civil partnerships. Only unrelated couples of the same-sex may enter into civil partnership. There is no requirement, admittedly, that the couple be gay. Yet, barring unusual circumstances,* it is very unlikely that many straight people have partaken of civil partnership, not least because it forecloses the possibility of a marriage to an opposite-sex partner. Are 'we' heterosexual? If the 'we' means (as it often means) heterosexual couples and heterosexuals generally, then the ...